Affairs

By Zaina Starr Discovering your partner is having an affair is heartbreaking. It leaves scars. Scars never heal. Someone who cannot be with one person for the rest of their life does not need a partner. I love very deeply and the person I call my partner is my best friend. We don’t keep secrets […]

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Why Our Heart’s Get Broken

By Zaina Starr Has anyone ever sat and asked, “Why do our hearts get broken?” I believe that has run across everyone’s mind. My personal experience on this topic is quite remarkable . I should be a bitter, hateful person to all and any man, but I’m quite the opposite. I always look for the […]

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“Mansplaining”

“Mansplaining” by Suzanne Marie Punch, aka “Zaina Starr https://link.medium.com/2gRH0K6KJ6 “The worst part of mansplaining is that when you’re busy telling a woman all about her business, you’re missing out on the opportunity to learn something from her. -Shaunta Grimes, Medium An Urgent Message for Mansplainers Everywhere Mansplaining, what all men are highly intelligent at.  Telling […]

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Round And Round

By Zaina Starr “We go back and forth between second thoughts and second chances.” -Poem Heaven, Twitter Our second thoughts are the second chances. That is all it should ever be, is second thoughts. There should never be second chances with an ex spouse. No one should never go backwards. Always learn to move forward. […]

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Kindness

By Zaina Starr “Sometimes people are beautiful, not in looks, not in what they say, just in what they are.” There are many people that society can count on that still demonstrate those random actions of kindness. Those people are chained to the melody of paying it forward. That’s the true greatness of being a […]

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Experience Eternal Life

John 12:23-25 Jesus replied, ‘The hour has come for the son of man to be glorified. Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But it dies, it produces many seeds. Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone […]

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Send Me Your Dick Pics

By Zaina Starr Send me your dick pick. Ha ha. Not. I’m really only kidding. If you have seen one dick pic, then you have seen them all. Plus there is this program called Adobe photoshop, that can do a picture wonders, let me tell you. I’ve seen things that I never knew existed. No […]

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Withy Writing Podcast

The author, Zaina Starr has now podcast her life for all viewers to listen to the way people treat her. She continues to try and help people and be a friend to them all…. This is what she gets in return. This podcast was made to show the world how people belittle someone that is […]

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The Good Guy Guide

By Zaina Starr Always give your lady compliments. This allows her to be more positive in conversation and in mood towards you when she directs her attention to you  Not just meaningless compliments, but specific ones, like complimenting on her eyes and her smile, Women love that! Be sincere while complimenting your lady. Be willing […]

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Frustration, Anxiety, to Silence

By Zaina Starr “When There’s so much to say, but I can’t speak the words.” When everything and everyone is either ripped out of your life or people always leave. Nobody ever means what they say to me, even though I’ve always meant what I have said. Leaving me loving a little more than the […]

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The Words To Live By

By Zaina Starr What words should we all learn to live by? I’m quite sure everyone has their own opinion on this subject, but I believe most of the answers would have the words I choose to live by in them. Truth… We should all strive for the truth in things. It corrects conflicts. Makes […]

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Stalkers

By Zaina Starr What do I know about stalkers? I’ve been stalked my entire life by men who just wanted to torment me.  They apparently did not know the meaning of respect. If they did they wouldn’t be peeping in my windows, and hacking my social accounts, or even the security system. I have had […]

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Don’t Go to Bed Angry

By Zaina Starr My grandparents were married over sixty years. My grandmother always told of the fairy tale relationship we always desire. My grandparent’s relationship was quite different. They were happy and family focused. They were Christian and raised their children as Christians also. I have noticed that the majority of people do not believe […]

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The Good Guy Guide

By Zaina Always give your lady compliments. This allows her to be more positive in conversation and in mood towards you when she directs her attention to you  Not just meaningless compliments, but specific ones, like complimenting on her eyes and her smile, Women love that! Be sincere while complimenting your lady. Be willing to […]

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God’s Way or Society’s Way

By Zaina Starr The opposite of what the world believes is true. The world says, protect yourself at all costs. God says, put someone else first and let me protect you. The world says, it’s your right to take revenge. God says, revenge hurts your heart. Let me take care of it. The world says, […]

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Lily of the Valley

By Zaina Starr Psalm 103:15 “The life of mortals is like grass, they flourish like a flower of the field.” What is the Lily of the Valley? There are several meanings. It is mentioned fifteen times in fifteen different versus in the bible. It’s mentioned eight times in Song of Songs. Lily of the Valley […]

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Fake Friends

By Zaina Starr People who do nothing but play with your head and emotion. Seems that here lately is all that I attract. I can only learn from this and decide to not socialize with anyone anymore. People that I have grown to have mad love for only turned out to be someone I should […]

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The Betrayed, the Loyal One

By Zaina Starr They betrayed the loyal one. Staying loyal throughout the whole relationship was the key, the goal, respect. What is expected of anyone in any relationship. That was me. Loyal I stayed, yet to be deceived and betrayed by the person I had developed a relationship with. The respect was not there. The […]

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Three Pet Peeves

By Zaina Starr Everyone has their own personal opinions on what they perceive their own pet peeves to be. Pet peeves are things that we can’t deal with. These things irritate us, make us sad, or change our emotions and happiness to be negative. All of us have our reasons on why these things are […]

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Affairs

By Zaina Starr Discovering your partner is having an affair is heartbreaking. It leaves scars. Scars never heal. Someone who cannot be with one person for the rest of their life does not need a partner. I love very deeply and the person I call my partner is my best friend. We don’t keep secrets […]

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How to Get What You Want

By Zaina Starr Life is made up of drama. It is what we all know as karma. Positive actions will later produce negative outcomes and negative will produce positive outcomes. It is similar to the domino effect, every action has a reaction. Karma controls our life. We all get what we deserve in the end. […]

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Send Me Your Dick Pics

By Zaina Starr Send me your dick pick. Ha ha. Not. I’m really only kidding. If you have seen one dick pic, then you have seen them all. Plus there is this program called Adobe photoshop, that can do a picture wonders, let me tell you. I’ve seen things that I never knew existed. No […]

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Women Who Knew Better

By Zaina Starr I knew better says enough about my stupid actions. I continuously seem to keep doing over and over.  When am I going to ever learn. This man doesn’t care for me like I do him. He’s verbally and physically abused me for almost two years now.  He has made me shut everyone […]

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