Affairs

By Zaina Starr Discovering your partner is having an affair is heartbreaking. It leaves scars. Scars never heal. Someone who cannot be with one person for the rest of their life does not need a partner. I love very deeply and the person I call my partner is my best friend. We don’t keep secrets […]

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Why Our Heart’s Get Broken

By Zaina Starr Has anyone ever sat and asked, “Why do our hearts get broken?” I believe that has run across everyone’s mind. My personal experience on this topic is quite remarkable . I should be a bitter, hateful person to all and any man, but I’m quite the opposite. I always look for the […]

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“Mansplaining”

“Mansplaining” by Suzanne Marie Punch, aka “Zaina Starr https://link.medium.com/2gRH0K6KJ6 “The worst part of mansplaining is that when you’re busy telling a woman all about her business, you’re missing out on the opportunity to learn something from her. -Shaunta Grimes, Medium An Urgent Message for Mansplainers Everywhere Mansplaining, what all men are highly intelligent at.  Telling […]

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Round And Round

By Zaina Starr “We go back and forth between second thoughts and second chances.” -Poem Heaven, Twitter Our second thoughts are the second chances. That is all it should ever be, is second thoughts. There should never be second chances with an ex spouse. No one should never go backwards. Always learn to move forward. […]

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Kindness

By Zaina Starr “Sometimes people are beautiful, not in looks, not in what they say, just in what they are.” There are many people that society can count on that still demonstrate those random actions of kindness. Those people are chained to the melody of paying it forward. That’s the true greatness of being a […]

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Tell the Truth

By Zaina Starr “Let us dare to write about those things we think but do not say, or avoid thinking about entirely.” When songs are played, they move us to respond a certain way by the emotions they bring out of us. Those emotions are triggered by a memory we have attached to the song.  […]

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Love Worse Than Drugs

I was used, abused, and mistreated by my son’s father. It caused me anxiety, depression, and isolation. He changed me. I would never be the person I once was. Overwhelmed with emotions, everyday was a struggle for me. Only negative comments to grow from. There was no growth. I lost everything. I worked. He didn’t. […]

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Highly Awakened

By Zaina Starr “In grief, there is no stage called closure.” Have you ever wanted to know why someone  spoke of such crazy thoughts? Thoughts that most do you not understand, at that time, or brush it off, as simply “they’re confused and talking out of their head.” Anyone ever thought, “Where did those thoughts […]

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“Why Save Your Enemies”

Below is an article on Medium that talks about why, we should save our enemies. Click on the link and read the article. Don’t forget to clap for it. The article is quite intriguing and will get your attention. You will start to think about things a little more than you do now. We all […]

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The Good Guy Guide

By Zaina Starr Always give your lady compliments. This allows her to be more positive in conversation and in mood towards you when she directs her attention to you  Not just meaningless compliments, but specific ones, like complimenting on her eyes and her smile, Women love that! Be sincere while complimenting your lady. Be willing […]

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The Road Not Taken

By Zaina Starr ” I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference. “ -Robert Frost Life is a journey, a story, that we navigate ourselves by choices that we have chosen. These choices that have lead us to where and who we are today. The choice to go with […]

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