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Affairs
By Zaina Starr Discovering your partner is having an affair is heartbreaking. It leaves scars. Scars never heal. Someone who cannot be with one person for the rest of their life does not need a partner. I love very deeply and the person I call my partner is my best friend. We don’t keep secrets […]
Read More Affairs“Tell the Truth”
“Tell the Truth” by Suzanne Marie Punch, aka “Zaina Starr https://link.medium.com/NqfxNQiKO6 “Let us dare to write about those things we think but do not say, or avoid thinking about entirely.” When songs are played, they move us to respond a certain way by the emotions they bring out of us. Those emotions are triggered by […]
Read More “Tell the Truth”Why Our Heart’s Get Broken
By Zaina Starr Has anyone ever sat and asked, “Why do our hearts get broken?” I believe that has run across everyone’s mind. My personal experience on this topic is quite remarkable . I should be a bitter, hateful person to all and any man, but I’m quite the opposite. I always look for the […]
Read More Why Our Heart’s Get Broken“Mansplaining”
“Mansplaining” by Suzanne Marie Punch, aka “Zaina Starr https://link.medium.com/2gRH0K6KJ6 “The worst part of mansplaining is that when you’re busy telling a woman all about her business, you’re missing out on the opportunity to learn something from her. -Shaunta Grimes, Medium An Urgent Message for Mansplainers Everywhere Mansplaining, what all men are highly intelligent at. Telling […]
Read More “Mansplaining”Round And Round
By Zaina Starr “We go back and forth between second thoughts and second chances.” -Poem Heaven, Twitter Our second thoughts are the second chances. That is all it should ever be, is second thoughts. There should never be second chances with an ex spouse. No one should never go backwards. Always learn to move forward. […]
Read More Round And RoundKindness
By Zaina Starr “Sometimes people are beautiful, not in looks, not in what they say, just in what they are.” There are many people that society can count on that still demonstrate those random actions of kindness. Those people are chained to the melody of paying it forward. That’s the true greatness of being a […]
Read More KindnessLove Worse Than Drugs
I was used, abused, and mistreated by my son’s father. It caused me anxiety, depression, and isolation. He changed me. I would never be the person I once was. Overwhelmed with emotions, everyday was a struggle for me. Only negative comments to grow from. There was no growth. I lost everything. I worked. He didn’t. […]
Read More Love Worse Than DrugsWhenever You’re Unsure
By Zaina Starr
Read More Whenever You’re UnsureIt’s Only Rare Until It’s You
“It’s Only Rare Until It’s You” by Suzanne Marie Punch, aka “Zaina Starr https://link.medium.com/zrBTs0FYg6 By Zaina Starr With the help of a butterfly, what I did not know was if it was really you or just my imagination. I became the chosen one, someone who saw the light and did not lie. I became evolved […]
Read More It’s Only Rare Until It’s YouMy Beautiful Destination
By Zaina Starr “My Beautiful Destination” by Suzanne Marie Punch, aka “Zaina Starr https://link.medium.com/01LTnhFte6 I have had the most unlucky situations to have encountered in a person’s lifetime that now I have experience. I’m left to wonder, “Why does all this unbelievable, crazy situations seem to always target me throughout my life?” At first, when […]
Read More My Beautiful DestinationI Love You
By Zaina Starr “I Love You” by Suzanne Marie Punch, aka “Zaina Starr https://link.medium.com/TzXR1W1se6 “She will remember the moments you made her feel loved more than the times that you said, “I love you.” -Poem Heaven, Twitter https://twitter.com/PoemHeaven/status/1208915258745720832?s=19 That there, gentlemen, notice that I said gentlemen, is the key to a woman’s heart. This message […]
Read More I Love YouLiving in Love
By Zaina Starr
Read More Living in LoveHighly Awakened
By Zaina Starr “In grief, there is no stage called closure.” Have you ever wanted to know why someone spoke of such crazy thoughts? Thoughts that most do you not understand, at that time, or brush it off, as simply “they’re confused and talking out of their head.” Anyone ever thought, “Where did those thoughts […]
Read More Highly AwakenedWithy Writing Podcast
The author, Zaina Starr has now podcast her life for all viewers to listen to the way people treat her. She continues to try and help people and be a friend to them all…. This is what she gets in return. This podcast was made to show the world how people belittle someone that is […]
Read More Withy Writing PodcastThe Stories We Tell Ourselves
By Zaina Starr What do you mean the stories we tell ourselves? Well, the stories we tell ourselves when we are worrying about an issue in our lives that is affecting us that we want to have control over, but ultimately cannot. Therefore, we convince ourselves to alter that situation in our minds to our […]
Read More The Stories We Tell OurselvesThe Good Guy Guide
By Zaina Starr Always give your lady compliments. This allows her to be more positive in conversation and in mood towards you when she directs her attention to you Not just meaningless compliments, but specific ones, like complimenting on her eyes and her smile, Women love that! Be sincere while complimenting your lady. Be willing […]
Read More The Good Guy GuideThe Road Not Taken
By Zaina Starr ” I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference. “ -Robert Frost Life is a journey, a story, that we navigate ourselves by choices that we have chosen. These choices that have lead us to where and who we are today. The choice to go with […]
Read More The Road Not TakenFrustration, Anxiety, to Silence
By Zaina Starr “When There’s so much to say, but I can’t speak the words.” When everything and everyone is either ripped out of your life or people always leave. Nobody ever means what they say to me, even though I’ve always meant what I have said. Leaving me loving a little more than the […]
Read More Frustration, Anxiety, to SilenceThe Words To Live By
By Zaina Starr What words should we all learn to live by? I’m quite sure everyone has their own opinion on this subject, but I believe most of the answers would have the words I choose to live by in them. Truth… We should all strive for the truth in things. It corrects conflicts. Makes […]
Read More The Words To Live ByStalkers
By Zaina Starr What do I know about stalkers? I’ve been stalked my entire life by men who just wanted to torment me. They apparently did not know the meaning of respect. If they did they wouldn’t be peeping in my windows, and hacking my social accounts, or even the security system. I have had […]
Read More StalkersDon’t Go to Bed Angry
By Zaina Starr My grandparents were married over sixty years. My grandmother always told of the fairy tale relationship we always desire. My grandparent’s relationship was quite different. They were happy and family focused. They were Christian and raised their children as Christians also. I have noticed that the majority of people do not believe […]
Read More Don’t Go to Bed AngryThe Good Guy Guide
By Zaina Always give your lady compliments. This allows her to be more positive in conversation and in mood towards you when she directs her attention to you Not just meaningless compliments, but specific ones, like complimenting on her eyes and her smile, Women love that! Be sincere while complimenting your lady. Be willing to […]
Read More The Good Guy GuideGod’s Way or Society’s Way
By Zaina Starr The opposite of what the world believes is true. The world says, protect yourself at all costs. God says, put someone else first and let me protect you. The world says, it’s your right to take revenge. God says, revenge hurts your heart. Let me take care of it. The world says, […]
Read More God’s Way or Society’s WayLily of the Valley
By Zaina Starr Psalm 103:15 “The life of mortals is like grass, they flourish like a flower of the field.” What is the Lily of the Valley? There are several meanings. It is mentioned fifteen times in fifteen different versus in the bible. It’s mentioned eight times in Song of Songs. Lily of the Valley […]
Read More Lily of the ValleyA Quote to Live By
By Zaina Starr ” I want you, don’t worry about who wants me.” A quote I try to live by and like to share with the ones who are special to me. The ones I share my life with. This is how I make the ones I care about feel special. They are the special […]
Read More A Quote to Live ByFake Friends
By Zaina Starr People who do nothing but play with your head and emotion. Seems that here lately is all that I attract. I can only learn from this and decide to not socialize with anyone anymore. People that I have grown to have mad love for only turned out to be someone I should […]
Read More Fake FriendsThe Betrayed, the Loyal One
By Zaina Starr They betrayed the loyal one. Staying loyal throughout the whole relationship was the key, the goal, respect. What is expected of anyone in any relationship. That was me. Loyal I stayed, yet to be deceived and betrayed by the person I had developed a relationship with. The respect was not there. The […]
Read More The Betrayed, the Loyal OneThree Pet Peeves
By Zaina Starr Everyone has their own personal opinions on what they perceive their own pet peeves to be. Pet peeves are things that we can’t deal with. These things irritate us, make us sad, or change our emotions and happiness to be negative. All of us have our reasons on why these things are […]
Read More Three Pet PeevesAffairs
By Zaina Starr Discovering your partner is having an affair is heartbreaking. It leaves scars. Scars never heal. Someone who cannot be with one person for the rest of their life does not need a partner. I love very deeply and the person I call my partner is my best friend. We don’t keep secrets […]
Read More Affairs