Affairs

By Zaina Starr Discovering your partner is having an affair is heartbreaking. It leaves scars. Scars never heal. Someone who cannot be with one person for the rest of their life does not need a partner. I love very deeply and the person I call my partner is my best friend. We don’t keep secrets […]

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“Mansplaining”

“Mansplaining” by Suzanne Marie Punch, aka “Zaina Starr https://link.medium.com/2gRH0K6KJ6 “The worst part of mansplaining is that when you’re busy telling a woman all about her business, you’re missing out on the opportunity to learn something from her. -Shaunta Grimes, Medium An Urgent Message for Mansplainers Everywhere Mansplaining, what all men are highly intelligent at.  Telling […]

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Kindness

By Zaina Starr “Sometimes people are beautiful, not in looks, not in what they say, just in what they are.” There are many people that society can count on that still demonstrate those random actions of kindness. Those people are chained to the melody of paying it forward. That’s the true greatness of being a […]

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Tell the Truth

By Zaina Starr “Let us dare to write about those things we think but do not say, or avoid thinking about entirely.” When songs are played, they move us to respond a certain way by the emotions they bring out of us. Those emotions are triggered by a memory we have attached to the song.  […]

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Love Worse Than Drugs

I was used, abused, and mistreated by my son’s father. It caused me anxiety, depression, and isolation. He changed me. I would never be the person I once was. Overwhelmed with emotions, everyday was a struggle for me. Only negative comments to grow from. There was no growth. I lost everything. I worked. He didn’t. […]

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Experience Eternal Life

John 12:23-25 Jesus replied, ‘The hour has come for the son of man to be glorified. Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But it dies, it produces many seeds. Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone […]

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Send Me Your Dick Pics

By Zaina Starr Send me your dick pick. Ha ha. Not. I’m really only kidding. If you have seen one dick pic, then you have seen them all. Plus there is this program called Adobe photoshop, that can do a picture wonders, let me tell you. I’ve seen things that I never knew existed. No […]

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Highly Awakened

By Zaina Starr “In grief, there is no stage called closure.” Have you ever wanted to know why someone  spoke of such crazy thoughts? Thoughts that most do you not understand, at that time, or brush it off, as simply “they’re confused and talking out of their head.” Anyone ever thought, “Where did those thoughts […]

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Withy Writing Podcast

The author, Zaina Starr has now podcast her life for all viewers to listen to the way people treat her. She continues to try and help people and be a friend to them all…. This is what she gets in return. This podcast was made to show the world how people belittle someone that is […]

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“Why Save Your Enemies”

Below is an article on Medium that talks about why, we should save our enemies. Click on the link and read the article. Don’t forget to clap for it. The article is quite intriguing and will get your attention. You will start to think about things a little more than you do now. We all […]

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The Stories We Tell Ourselves

By Zaina Starr What do you mean the stories we tell ourselves? Well, the stories we tell ourselves when we are worrying about an issue in our lives that is affecting us that we want to have control over, but ultimately cannot. Therefore, we convince ourselves to alter that situation in our minds to our […]

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The Good Guy Guide

By Zaina Starr Always give your lady compliments. This allows her to be more positive in conversation and in mood towards you when she directs her attention to you  Not just meaningless compliments, but specific ones, like complimenting on her eyes and her smile, Women love that! Be sincere while complimenting your lady. Be willing […]

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The Road Not Taken

By Zaina Starr ” I took the one less traveled by, and that has made all the difference. “ -Robert Frost Life is a journey, a story, that we navigate ourselves by choices that we have chosen. These choices that have lead us to where and who we are today. The choice to go with […]

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Frustration, Anxiety, to Silence

By Zaina Starr “When There’s so much to say, but I can’t speak the words.” When everything and everyone is either ripped out of your life or people always leave. Nobody ever means what they say to me, even though I’ve always meant what I have said. Leaving me loving a little more than the […]

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Stalkers

By Zaina Starr What do I know about stalkers? I’ve been stalked my entire life by men who just wanted to torment me.  They apparently did not know the meaning of respect. If they did they wouldn’t be peeping in my windows, and hacking my social accounts, or even the security system. I have had […]

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Don’t Go to Bed Angry

By Zaina Starr My grandparents were married over sixty years. My grandmother always told of the fairy tale relationship we always desire. My grandparent’s relationship was quite different. They were happy and family focused. They were Christian and raised their children as Christians also. I have noticed that the majority of people do not believe […]

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