“Tell the Truth”

“Tell the Truth” by Suzanne Marie Punch, aka “Zaina Starr https://link.medium.com/NqfxNQiKO6 “Let us dare to write about those things we think but do not say, or avoid thinking about entirely.” When songs are played, they move us to respond a certain way by the emotions they bring out of us. Those emotions are triggered by […]

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Round And Round

By Zaina Starr “We go back and forth between second thoughts and second chances.” -Poem Heaven, Twitter Our second thoughts are the second chances. That is all it should ever be, is second thoughts. There should never be second chances with an ex spouse. No one should never go backwards. Always learn to move forward. […]

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Tell the Truth

By Zaina Starr “Let us dare to write about those things we think but do not say, or avoid thinking about entirely.” When songs are played, they move us to respond a certain way by the emotions they bring out of us. Those emotions are triggered by a memory we have attached to the song.  […]

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Love Worse Than Drugs

I was used, abused, and mistreated by my son’s father. It caused me anxiety, depression, and isolation. He changed me. I would never be the person I once was. Overwhelmed with emotions, everyday was a struggle for me. Only negative comments to grow from. There was no growth. I lost everything. I worked. He didn’t. […]

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Withy Writing Podcast

The author, Zaina Starr has now podcast her life for all viewers to listen to the way people treat her. She continues to try and help people and be a friend to them all…. This is what she gets in return. This podcast was made to show the world how people belittle someone that is […]

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“Why Save Your Enemies”

Below is an article on Medium that talks about why, we should save our enemies. Click on the link and read the article. Don’t forget to clap for it. The article is quite intriguing and will get your attention. You will start to think about things a little more than you do now. We all […]

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The Stories We Tell Ourselves

By Zaina Starr What do you mean the stories we tell ourselves? Well, the stories we tell ourselves when we are worrying about an issue in our lives that is affecting us that we want to have control over, but ultimately cannot. Therefore, we convince ourselves to alter that situation in our minds to our […]

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The Good Guy Guide

By Zaina Starr Always give your lady compliments. This allows her to be more positive in conversation and in mood towards you when she directs her attention to you  Not just meaningless compliments, but specific ones, like complimenting on her eyes and her smile, Women love that! Be sincere while complimenting your lady. Be willing […]

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The Words To Live By

By Zaina Starr What words should we all learn to live by? I’m quite sure everyone has their own opinion on this subject, but I believe most of the answers would have the words I choose to live by in them. Truth… We should all strive for the truth in things. It corrects conflicts. Makes […]

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Don’t Go to Bed Angry

By Zaina Starr My grandparents were married over sixty years. My grandmother always told of the fairy tale relationship we always desire. My grandparent’s relationship was quite different. They were happy and family focused. They were Christian and raised their children as Christians also. I have noticed that the majority of people do not believe […]

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The Good Guy Guide

By Zaina Always give your lady compliments. This allows her to be more positive in conversation and in mood towards you when she directs her attention to you  Not just meaningless compliments, but specific ones, like complimenting on her eyes and her smile, Women love that! Be sincere while complimenting your lady. Be willing to […]

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God’s Way or Society’s Way

By Zaina Starr The opposite of what the world believes is true. The world says, protect yourself at all costs. God says, put someone else first and let me protect you. The world says, it’s your right to take revenge. God says, revenge hurts your heart. Let me take care of it. The world says, […]

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Lily of the Valley

By Zaina Starr Psalm 103:15 “The life of mortals is like grass, they flourish like a flower of the field.” What is the Lily of the Valley? There are several meanings. It is mentioned fifteen times in fifteen different versus in the bible. It’s mentioned eight times in Song of Songs. Lily of the Valley […]

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A Quote to Live By

By Zaina Starr ” I want you, don’t worry about who wants me.” A quote I try to live by and like to share with the ones who are special to me. The ones I share my life with. This is how I make the ones I care about feel special. They are the special […]

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The Betrayed, the Loyal One

By Zaina Starr They betrayed the loyal one. Staying loyal throughout the whole relationship was the key, the goal, respect. What is expected of anyone in any relationship. That was me. Loyal I stayed, yet to be deceived and betrayed by the person I had developed a relationship with. The respect was not there. The […]

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Three Pet Peeves

By Zaina Starr Everyone has their own personal opinions on what they perceive their own pet peeves to be. Pet peeves are things that we can’t deal with. These things irritate us, make us sad, or change our emotions and happiness to be negative. All of us have our reasons on why these things are […]

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Affairs

By Zaina Starr Discovering your partner is having an affair is heartbreaking. It leaves scars. Scars never heal. Someone who cannot be with one person for the rest of their life does not need a partner. I love very deeply and the person I call my partner is my best friend. We don’t keep secrets […]

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How to Get What You Want

By Zaina Starr Life is made up of drama. It is what we all know as karma. Positive actions will later produce negative outcomes and negative will produce positive outcomes. It is similar to the domino effect, every action has a reaction. Karma controls our life. We all get what we deserve in the end. […]

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Send Me Your Dick Pics

By Zaina Starr Send me your dick pick. Ha ha. Not. I’m really only kidding. If you have seen one dick pic, then you have seen them all. Plus there is this program called Adobe photoshop, that can do a picture wonders, let me tell you. I’ve seen things that I never knew existed. No […]

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Women Who Knew Better

By Zaina Starr I knew better says enough about my stupid actions. I continuously seem to keep doing over and over.  When am I going to ever learn. This man doesn’t care for me like I do him. He’s verbally and physically abused me for almost two years now.  He has made me shut everyone […]

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Staying in Touch With Yourself

By Zaina Starr “Keep your eyes on the stars and feet on the ground.” -Theodore Roosevelt Remember to always stay in touch with yourself. People and certain situations we encounter in life will try to steal our peace of mind. Our personal time with ourselves. A time to gather our thoughts about life and evaluate […]

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Pretty Useless Things

By Zaina Starr  “I saved your letters and put them away in a box labeled ‘pretty useless things’.” -Poem Heaven That quote is how I feel about everyone who has done me wrong.  The ones that told me that I was the one and lied straight to my face.  Every single time, every situation, every […]

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The Stories We Tell Ourselves

By Zaina Starr  What do you mean the stories we tell ourselves? Well, the stories we tell ourselves when we are worrying about an issue in our lives that is affecting us that we want to have control over, but ultimately cannot. Therefore, we convince ourselves to alter that situation in our minds to our […]

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Affairs

By Zaina Starr Discovering your partner is having an affair is heartbreaking. It leaves scars. Scars never heal. Someone who cannot be with one person for the rest of their life does not need a partner. I love very deeply and the person I call my partner is my best friend. We don’t keep secrets […]

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Changes

By Zaina Starr Changes are only what is needed for everyone. When God gives you options, always chose the change. He put that option there because that’s what you need. God will always provide what we need. Listen to what everyone is saying that you come in contact with. That’s a message from God. Only […]

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I Love You

By Zaina Starr “She will remember the moments you made her feel loved more than the times that you said, “I love you.” –Poem Heaven, Twitter That there, gentlemen, notice that I said gentlemen, is the key to a woman’s heart. This message is specifically for gentlemen only. All other men do not care enough […]

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